There are tons of different porn sites that vary in how they work, how much they pay models and how much support they give to clients. This article untangles cool features of the most famous sites so you can buy your porn in a safe and ethical way.
The safest way to make sure your order will be fulfilled is to do your research beforehand. I wrote other "Don't Get Scammed" articles teaching you how to do just that! Part 1 - How to Identify Real Models, and Part 2 - Where to Find Legit Models, check them out!
If you are planning on making a big custom order or even get a GFE or FemDom package, you may want to build a relationship with the model before with a short webcam session or small custom video. You'll be able to see her in action, check the quality of her camera and how the overall experience with the model is.
If you don't have the time or can't be bothered, here are some useful insights on adult sites features that will help you buy safely:
Product: Video chat, sexting, custom videos, etc.
Small independent cam sites will give you full support in case you buy a session or custom work and it's not delivered. They work with a very small community of trustable sellers and they all know each other.
I can tell you for a fact that sites such as CamModelDirectory, LiveCamModelShow and GirlsPrivateCam will intervene in favor of the client in case of problems. Models don't want to mess up their relationship with the sites because that's where they take their livelihoods, they don't want to risk being banned.
Prepaid sessions give you the biggest freedom to chose which app you want to connect (although the most popular is Skype, many people prefer to use Discord, Snapchat, Telegram and even WhatsApp), the moment you want to do your session and it's easier for the model to plan ahead when they know how long you'll have together.
Favorite Sites: CamModelDirectory, LiveCamModelShow and GirlsPrivateCam
Product: Custom Video
I find it very useful and safe to order custom videos through escrow because that's the kind of work you don't receive instantly after payment, especially if you have never worked with that model before.
This is how the escrow system works: you pay for the site upfront but the model only receives the money at the delivery date. If she fails to finish the job, you get a refund automatically.
Models have a different turnaround time (for example, I usually have it done in up to 72 hours), so the delivery date is something to negotiate individually, but keep in mind that the standard limit for custom videos on the escrow system is 30 days.
Favorite sites: ManyVids, IWantClips and ExtraLunchMoney
Product: Video chat and Phone Sex
For video calls on Skype and phone sex, one way to do it is through Pay Per Minute.
You'll top up your account on the site and then call the model on skype, your session will be as long as you stay connected or until your money runs off. Note that they only charge you for the money you have already deposited on the site, so you have total control over how much you spend, not like the old days where you could call phone sex and then get billed later on your phone bill.
Favorite Sites: NiteFlirt and Skyprivate
Product: Videos and Pictures
You want to watch homemade amateur porn, you can use clip sites and fan clubs. Many sites give a preview to every video and describe the quality resolution of the video and the length.
If you want to download the video, make sure to check if the site will allow you to and if it's available for the video you want. Sites like OnlyFans and other fan clubs rarely allow the download.
Clip sites will show on each video if it's downloadable or streaming only.
The positive part of streaming videos is that you don't need to keep it on your device, you just need to log in and it will be available. Good for privacy, to save memory space and no risk to lose it, the videos are available any time anywhere you are.
Favorite Sites: Clips4Sale, ManyVids and OnlyFans
Have you found other features that helped you buy? What's your favorite site?
Leave a comment or message me directly! I'll love to hear your experiences.
A client asked me when I plan to retire.
I left my former career to devote myself entirely to sex work many years ago because it was both more fun and more lucrative.
I told him I'd stop when it stops being fun or lucrative. And that's true.
But today I had an experience that made me...
I stopped caring too much about correcting grammar and typos so people know for sure it's not AI, but a real breathing person on the other side of the screen.
This week a guy told me "I can see that you are working out a lot" and it got me all warm inside!
It's nice when someone compliments you on something you have worked hard for.
For the past 4 years I've been weight lifting at least 5x a week on a high protein diet. It's not easy, it takes time......
Just had a JOI* session that made me really wet!
Call me weird but I love to observe the ropes of cum as they leave a cock.The way the dick throbs, how the balls move, the moans that often accompany the pleasure... It's all a turn on, but the way the cum load is busted really vary from person to person and that's what make it so special....
A little review of the horror movies I watched in October for Halloween month!
The other day I logged on to ExtraLunchMoney, a site used to sell pre-recorded and custom videos, and had the unpleasant news that it would close by the end of September. I'm so sad about the end of extra lunch money, it feels like the end of an era.