The most common liquid used is water. Some people enjoy milk enemas for aesthetic purposes. Sensation play can be done by warm or cold enema, or by adding stuff to the mix, such as figging (the art of using ginger up the ass to spice things up!).
Intox can easily be achieved by the use of enemas because the anus is sensitive and makes the consumption of the substance very fast and strong. I don't recommend this kind of play unless you know what you are doing and take all the precautions, it could be dangerous. Please read about RACK (risk-aware consensual kink).
Nowadays, a very popular use is coffee enemas and essential oil enemas, they are not scientifically proven to actually work, but some people swear it makes them feel better and infused with energy.
You have never done an enema and want to try?
Let me explain the different types and how to proceed...
Enema play is divided into 3 different stages:
- preparation and filling up the ass: stretching the ass and bowels with the liquid;
- holding the content inside the body: may cause cramps, and can be used as punishment or as a form of control;
- pushing it out and cleansing: feeling of relief, intimacy, scat, and purgation.
Each phase provokes specific sensations and different people get aroused by distinct parts, some people enjoy the whole journey, and others pick only one or two stages to share with their sexual partner, doing the remaining in private.
There are many ways to play this game: some people prefer a nurturing approach, such as a mommy type who holds their hands and assures them that everything will be fine while every drop of the enema liquid enters their intestines.
Soothing as the cramps begin to set in, encouraging them to stay longer with it inside, perhaps even using a clock watch to time how long they can hold it in and congratulating them afterward.
Others get a kick out of using enemas as an excellent torture device!
One of my favorite butt sluts is a sexy guy called M. We had been playing for a while when he decided to reveal his dirty little secret - he was into enema punishment! This fact turned me on so much that our sessions now ALWAYS begin with an enema. Or two ;)
M.'s enthusiasm for enema play inspires me to always go further and research new things for our time together; he's capable of taking some very large bags and keeping them inside for a long time, such an obedient anal sub enduring cramps for his Mistress!
Whether you fantasize about becoming a professional enema lover or just want to try it out to see if you enjoy it, you don't need to commit to buying a full kit to experiment with it. You can start with the handheld shower, use a vaginal douche or even a big syringe, and see how it goes.
When buying your enema kit, I recommend using a silicon nozzle, they are not too large, go deeper, and feel smooth. Using lukewarm water makes it more comfortable and always lube up the nozzle before introducing it.
Lastly, note that I don't think enemas are inherently necessary for every anal play, as long as you have a healthy diet and have had your bowel movements for the day, light anal play (aka regular butt plugs and prostate play) doesn't require internal showers. Do it only if it feels right for you because having too many too often can mess with your natural gut bacteria.
And here's an interesting fact, the ancient Egyptians believed the god Thot invented enemas! No wonder it can feel heavenly ;)