Leather, Latex, Lingerie… All about Looks! A to Z Fetish Series.

26/01/2023

Kinksters are often recognized by the way they dress up to play. From leather daddies to latex mistresses, certain attire sets the tone of an erotic scene by revealing just enough to titillate our lust without requiring nudity.

Some people have specific fetishes for particular types of clothing for a variety of reasons. I love how outfits are able to provoke sensations: the smell of leather, the shining impression of the latex, the intimacy of seeing that special someone in lingerie, the smooth feeling of nylon against your skin, the anonymity and freedom of hiding your face with a mask can bring, how a tight lycra piece against your body can be a form of restraint and bondage, and so on.

The possibilities are endless!

I admit I have a bit of a fetish for the way I present myself, it turns me on to look in the mirror and catch that glimpse of femininity and sensuality that my clothes represent.

That's why, before every cam session or custom video, I carefully curate the outfit to match the vibe I'm feeling that day. High heels, lingerie, and jewelry are things I never go without!

Every so often I encounter a guy who wants to dress me up according to his wishes, and it's such a thrill to model one of my hundreds of outfits - and then take them off ;) A few weeks ago, I spent the whole night with M. He used me like a living doll... many panties and bras covered and uncovered my lady bits until he found the perfect one to make squirt on!

To understand why specific clothes are related to fetishes, we need to learn a bit about their history and how kinky, the LGBTQ+ community and the fight for freedom are all interconnected.

In the mid-twentieth century, a bunch of gay men were discharged from the American army after serving in World War II for the sole reason of being homosexuals. In big cities, especially on the west coast, they funded motorcycle clubs where they could be themselves. The leather traditionally used by bikers became a symbol of virility.

In these spaces, for the first time in modern America, members of the LGBT+ community (not only gay men) were able to be open about their sexual orientation and also their sexual preferences. BDSM started to be discussed and widely practiced among members of these clubs who included their leather attire in their lifestyle.

Leather became a code, a form of transgressing censorship against male nudity through the sexualization of the clothes they wore, and a way of empowering a type of masculinity expression.

The leather subculture left its inspiration everywhere in the world, from rock and roll music to the work of Tom of Finland, an artist who depicted sexy men in leather, to the organization of gay clubs everywhere.

It was not always a bed of roses, they were persecuted and repressed by the police. Culminating in the riots of Stonewall, subsequently the Gay Pride Marches, and the arising of LGBT+ rights.

As you can see in many of my articles, sexuality is all about freedom. If you can read this today, it's because there is an internet provider, a web host, and a government that is not choosing to stop you from doing it - but they are trying! Our freedom is something that many fought and even died for, don't take it for granted.

When we see the backlash happening right now against the LGBT community, even if you are not a part of it, remember that this is an attack on personal rights and freedom of expression. And the same groups that persecute them are the ones going after the erotic arts and all kinds of sexual expression.

Now that I've paid my respect to the leather daddies, I gotta say as a biker myself, I'm really into leather. BDSM gear and leather boots specifically. I love the smell of leather, how it looks on my body, and especially, how I can play with it!

My muse and sissy Princess R loves a good ballbusting when I'm wearing black leather boots, pressing his girly balls with the pointy tip and then making him jizz all over my shoes! The thick white cream contrasting with the black leather creates such beautiful designs. I always have to force him to lick it clean afterward!

Footwear is an entire category of its own! When I do custom videos I often receive detailed instructions about how to cover my feet. High heels are the all-time favorite! As a short girl, heels are a must and I have dozens of different pairs in my collection.

But it doesn't stop there. Some guys prefer flats, flip-flops, sandals... others rather see me on socks or tight highs. I've gotten many shoes as gifts from clients that wanted to see using something I didn't already own.

Another popular request is for the wet look, shiny tight clothes that give the body the appearance of being wet. Leggings, leotards, and even stockings can be used for this purpose.

The first time I heard this expression was many years ago with a guy named D. He messaged me on skype asking if I had any wetlook clothes, I googled and found out that yes, I had! Every now and then, always late at night, I receive D's message again... And I always make sure to have something new and shiny just for him!


Clothing can be a turn-on for so many people! One of the reasons that a fetish is developed inside someone's brain has to do with a sexual synapse happening at a certain random moment and then the sight of that item is associated with sexual pleasure.

This way, if you have ever gotten aroused by someone wearing a certain type of clothing, you may want to repeat this pattern forever! It's very understandable how lacy lingerie and tight and see-through clothes can provoke this feeling, however, this can explain how some people are attracted to items that are not inherently sexual.

One of my personal favorite accessories is the gas mask! The visual gives such a dystopic mood that inspires me to create the craziest stories: I recorded a FemDom video wearing only a catsuit and a gasmask, based on an alternative reality where men with small penises are sentenced to the death penalty in gas chambers unless they agree to be used for mocking therapy.

Gas mask fetish goes beyond looks though, it's a very interesting way to do breath play! The control of someone's breath, watching the lenses go foggy and even mix with intoxication. Once a sub asked me to smoke a cigarette and blow the smoke inside his gas mask as a form of punishment.

Covering the face with any type of mask can create a certain sentiment of freedom and dehumanization, that can be sexually liberating. From Venetian Masks worn for anonymity while celebrating Carnival (the party of the flesh) to muzzles encountered in any BDSM store, the mystery it entails seduces both the wearer and the beholder.

I have done some custom videos with a cow mask for a guy named F. and it was such an interesting experience to play with the idea of a collected human being turned into an irrational animal unable to say no to its animalistic horny feelings!

It even makes me think about the furries, people who are turned on by their personas, which are anthropomorphic animal characters. Although their fetish goes way beyond the clothes, the fursuits play a big role in their plays.

The way we dress is a form of expression, a form of art, and can also be erotic!

What's your favorite fetish clothing?

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