I admit I have a bit of a fetish for the way I present myself, it turns me on to look in the mirror and catch that glimpse of femininity and sensuality that my clothes represent.
That's why, before every cam session or custom video, I carefully curate the outfit to match the vibe I'm feeling that day. High heels, lingerie, and jewelry are things I never go without!
Every so often I encounter a guy who wants to dress me up according to his wishes, and it's such a thrill to model one of my hundreds of outfits - and then take them off ;) A few weeks ago, I spent the whole night with M. He used me like a living doll... many panties and bras covered and uncovered my lady bits until he found the perfect one to make squirt on!
To understand why specific clothes are related to fetishes, we need to learn a bit about their history and how kinky, the LGBTQ+ community and the fight for freedom are all interconnected.
In the mid-twentieth century, a bunch of gay men were discharged from the American army after serving in World War II for the sole reason of being homosexuals. In big cities, especially on the west coast, they funded motorcycle clubs where they could be themselves. The leather traditionally used by bikers became a symbol of virility.
In these spaces, for the first time in modern America, members of the LGBT+ community (not only gay men) were able to be open about their sexual orientation and also their sexual preferences. BDSM started to be discussed and widely practiced among members of these clubs who included their leather attire in their lifestyle.
Leather became a code, a form of transgressing censorship against male nudity through the sexualization of the clothes they wore, and a way of empowering a type of masculinity expression.
The leather subculture left its inspiration everywhere in the world, from rock and roll music to the work of Tom of Finland, an artist who depicted sexy men in leather, to the organization of gay clubs everywhere.
It was not always a bed of roses, they were persecuted and repressed by the police. Culminating in the riots of Stonewall, subsequently the Gay Pride Marches, and the arising of LGBT+ rights.
As you can see in many of my articles, sexuality is all about freedom. If you can read this today, it's because there is an internet provider, a web host, and a government that is not choosing to stop you from doing it - but they are trying! Our freedom is something that many fought and even died for, don't take it for granted.
When we see the backlash happening right now against the LGBT community, even if you are not a part of it, remember that this is an attack on personal rights and freedom of expression. And the same groups that persecute them are the ones going after the erotic arts and all kinds of sexual expression.